redesign for faster cpu/gpu synch (#1869)

* redesign for faster cpu/gpu synch

* load + more async CPU

* use command encoder API and move more ops to use it

* make fence back-end generic + CPU only fence

* faster build

* fix async eval

* fixes + handle temporaries

* fix / improve cpu conv

* remove unused status, fix siblings

* fix extensions

* fix

* fix no cpu build

* format

* comments

* fix perf regression, remove unecessary abort

* fix events, task limit cpu

* fix waiting

* fix donation / temporaries in normalization

mlx/backend/cpu/eval.h

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+// Copyright © 2025 Apple Inc.
+
+#pragma once
+
+#include "mlx/array.h"
+#include "mlx/stream.h"
+
+namespace mlx::core::cpu {
+
+void eval(array& arr);
+
+} // namespace mlx::core::cpu