petsc: builds break with gnu-make-4.4.1 (#35906)

Use 'make' detected by spack within petsc build

var/spack/repos/builtin/packages/petsc/package.py

@@ -377,6 +377,7 @@ def configure_options(self):
             "--download-c2html=0",
             "--download-sowing=0",
             "--download-hwloc=0",
+            "--with-make-exec=%s" % make,
         ]
         # If 'cflags', 'fflags', and/or 'cxxflags' are not set, let the PETSc
         # configuration script choose defaults.
@@ -580,7 +581,10 @@ def configure(self, spec, prefix):
 
     def build(self, spec, prefix):
         self.revert_kokkos_nvcc_wrapper()
-        make("V=1")
+        if spec.satisfies("@:3.18.5"):
+            make("OMAKE_PRINTDIR=%s" % make, "V=1")
+        else:
+            make("V=1")
 
     def install(self, spec, prefix):
         self.revert_kokkos_nvcc_wrapper()