* developer tools stack try 2
This version is actually in use locally and has largely stabilized, at
least on x86. Some packages are still a challenge on ppc64le, but maybe
worth keeping this working as a set.
* add packages, try to get container with newer gcc
* remove reuse: true
* try to get cmake to build on medium, 25 minutes is too long
* add lsd package and add to dev tools stack
* clean up fzf dependency and sorting
* Update share/spack/gitlab/cloud_pipelines/stacks/developer_tools/spack.yaml
* cuda: add 12.3.0 (#40827)
* Switch to dashes
* yet more underscores
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Co-authored-by: Paul R. C. Kent <kentpr@ornl.gov>